This is one of the recurring problems in us men really do not know what had significantly be a confident person and at the same time attract the girls that interest us. To begin, let's see what the dictionary tells us of the RAE (Royal Spanish Academy) about the meaning of the word security (quality of being safe). And based on these definitions apply directly to the issue before us, we'll explain how to gain more confidence with girls. By the same author: film director. insurance, ra. (Del lat. Securus). 1.
adj. Free and clear of any danger, harm or risk. 2. adj. True, indubitable and somehow infallible. 3. adj.
Strong, steady and is not in danger of failing or falling. 4. adj. No suspect. In the first definition, feel free and clear of any danger simply means that you should have no fear of being rejected as not dangerous. And why the rejection can be considered a danger? Because in the past (on the principles of humanity) if you were rejected by your tribe because maybe you linked to one of women in the head, this was sufficient grounds for expulsion from it and from that moment you were going to be alone, without protection, without shelter and without food (in case you did not know hunting, cooking ..) until a new tribe will accept you as one of its members. Ie it is at the mercy of nature and their designs. Of course in those days the tribes were widely scattered and far between, and it was hard you could find a new tribe, and not only that, you had to get them to accept you as one of its members.